Have you ever met
someone you just couldn’t resist? If you
polled people, you’d find that there is a wide variety qualities or
characteristics they find so attractive they lose their resolve, discretion,
and typical good judgment.
For instance, some
are drawn to people in the entertainment world or public eye. Individuals in powerful positions or uniform
may attract us. (Did you know “I love a
man in uniform” is a song, a book, a film and a video on youtube?) Perhaps you’ve met someone who reminded you
of someone you admire, once knew, or miss.
Whatever the circumstance, a weakness makes it difficult for us to
resist the individual. When faced with
such a temptation, we may find ourselves abandoning our commitment to having
only sane sex.
We might be
inclined to say that when confronted with a weakness, we lose control. In
actuality, we are responsible adults, so it’s more accurate to say that we
allow ourselves to give up our resolve and act against our better
judgment. But, because you are an adult,
it’s a choice you get to make. I’d just
like to see you be aware of your weaknesses so when the moment of choice comes,
you make a decision you can live with later.